PHOENIX UNLEASHED

I DECIDED THIS SUBJECT NEED TO BE ADDRESSED… Some of us wonder why, we cant truly get ahead and move on to what God really has for us, because of unspoken tension…

We sweep alot of shit under the rug, or force it to the back of our minds and hearts, but its still there. Still festering, still growing into deeper hurt, and lot more bitterness to harbour…

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Little do we know those things are still poisonously leaking into our conversations, showing up in our new relationships as fear, and causing are light to be a little more dim…

There are alot of  yall that have friends or exs that you havent truly let go of… Afraid of losing them after they’re already gone… Alot of you still have ppl in your life that you know dog you behind your back  and you just play it cool and secretly resent them because you never said anything…

NOWS THE TIME TO HEAL….. BECAUSE YOU ARE ONLY HURTING YOURSELF MORE AND DESTROYING YOUR ENERGY AND SPIRIT… AND ATTRACTING THAT TO YOU… THE LAWS OF ATTRACTION ARE REAL…

THIS IS WHAT I HAD TO FO RECENTLY………..(BECAUSE LIFE IS A PROCESS)

YOU CANNOT ACKNOWLEDGE, WHAT YOU DONT ACCEPT, AND YOU CANNOT ACCEPT, WHAT YOU DONT IDENTIFY… – Paula White 02′

The only way to CHANGE AND HEAL is to IDENTIFY the issue, ACCEPT the fact that its not healthy, and not  the way  things are suppose to be, and ACKNOWLEDGE that it is something you want to change or most time NEED to change.

Start to HEALING…..

1.) I REACHED OUT TO EVERYONE THAT I MAY HAVE HURT WHILE I WAS HURTING AND APOLOGIZED, EVEN IT IT WAS NOTHING REALLY TO THEM… (remember you’re doing this for you)

2.) I let go of the past relationships (if they are meant to be back in your life they will be) I stopped calling certain people,  sent them one last email , text or even phone call letting the know the reasons that I was stepping away… (dont make it negative, just honest, and always remember to conclude in a positive way, dont offend them or point fingers) … although some ppl may take it that way. Try not to use this to vent negatively, or cause more tension.

SOME PEOPLE ARE NOT BAD PPL, THERE JUST NOT GOOD FOR YOU…

We dont have time to allow someone to take so much of our energy away.. whether it be arguing with them, secretly having anger towards them, a person who makes you over emotional, to where you’re having fits of rage, sadness, screaming matches, THINGS THAT CAUSE YOU TO ACT TOTALLY OUTSIDE OF YOUR CHARACTER… (This could be friends, lovers, even family members)…. Its time to let that go..

We all know letting go of someone is not the easiest thing to do… I personally had to force myself to erase someones number because I knew that I would keep trying to work it out, and keep calling them. Because that’s what Love does to you… If i dont have your number, I wont call… TRUST ME ERASING THAT NUMBER IS HARD AS HELL….

3.) Don’t be afraid to lose someone… Some of us are with ppl out of habit, some us are afraid to be alone,  some of us are just content with being unhappy… If this is you, you need to ask yourself… Do I really like you? or Do i just love you?…… Some of those ppl were entertain in our lives we dont even like… its time to find happiness people.. Its time to find your true confidence….IN YOU… I PERSONALLY WANT TO REALLY LIKE THE PERSON I LOVE, You may need to really get to know that person… Ask questions… They may not be who they use to be anymore… People Grow and Change….

4.) And there’s those of you who have relationships with friends that you stopped talking to because they pissed you off, or did something jacked up, and everytime you say their name its like re living it all over again, you get angry, irritated with other ppl around you, and just go off on a tangent venting, making yourself look angry, and bitter, and frankly its not cute…. You just let someone else take over your nice evening…. and everyones looking at you like you need counseling…..YOU need to let it go… i hit up a few ppl and just said that i hope whatever wrongs we may have felt toward one another (sometimes its not just you thats hurting) will be healed and forgiven… And Let it Go!

Dont allow yourself to talk negative about them anymore!!!!…….. And watch your blessings start to Roll in BABY…

Muah

Phoenix